F.W.B

Nothing intrigues me like the concept of FWB ! One might say its an escape hatch for commitment phobics, some might say its designed to increase the level of promiscuity in the society, the last few would probably just say it further adds to the diminishing moral standards in the world.

What do i think?.....hmmmm ...let me see !...............I THINK ITS A STROKE OF GENIUS !

Why?

Simple because FWB is not for the simpleton. Its not for people with exceedingly low emotional intelligence. Neither is it for people who are only just "discovering themselves". FWB is soo much more than that.  It takes a certain level of introspectiveness to pull it off. It's not at all selfish in its ways and more importantly, it could save someone's life from a whirl pool of heart break. i'm sure you're wondering what i am babbling on about but hopefully , clarity is just around the corner.

When you look at the world and the number of failed relationships there are out there...you have to step back and ask: 1.) is it because people dont know what they want? 2.) is it because people get too much of what they want? 3.) Is it because people dont know themselves well enough to know what works and what wouldnt? 4.) Is it because too often, too many couples are on different pages of the same book?

Well... FWB is about all of the above. The concept simply exists because some people are honest with themselves and know enough about themselves to know what they can give and are liable to receive. They understand the difference between love and hate, lust and love, physical attraction and emotional connection, playing a game and being the game, commitment and undecisiveness....the comparisons go on and on and on...

Not all friends can become lovers, not all lovers are friends. Some friends do end up becoming lovers while others...stay friends with the occasional lovers role play :). Contrary to popular belief, thats a very difficult bridge to cross. Too often some people fall too deep, some dont fall at all, sometimes a friendship gets abandoned because they've tried being lovers and it just didnt work out.....which brings me back to my earlier point about not everyone being able to pull off being a full fledged FWB !.

Unfortunately i can't say anymore about the subject because there's a certain code of conduct that must be preserved. All i can is the world could learn a great deal from FWB's. Their level of personal understanding is extremely enlightening.