Me, Myself and I....Say "Hi"

It's not very often you find a trifecta like me. You can often predict which ME was responsible for what when it comes to the stuff i do....almost like a first, second, third position after a race....Lol

It's a wonderful thing when you discover the departments you've got functioning in that little brain of yours. It amazing how::

1. you could watch south park and laugh at the crude jokes even though they should be offensive. 
2. you watch a horror movie and relate to both the victim and murderer. 
3. You watch a cartoon and wonder for a minute or less how much easier life would be if you could just live in a place like jellyStone Park with Yogi and Booboo, pinching picnic baskets. 
4. Then you watch a romantic movie and you feel someones hestitation, passion and emotions. 
5. You watch a heart wrenching drama and you're reduced to tears, feeling every pain like it were yours to endure, catching every breadth like it were yours to release. 
6. Haven't you ever wondered why your mind does that to you?

The answer is quite simple "BECAUSE IT CAN". You are a never ending stream of nerves, emotions and thoughts. You don't always have to understand a thing before you really understand a thing. That's why you can be casual and then serious. Aloof and then in tune. Worried and then faire-laissez. You've got different emotions for different seasons. A different you to face every woo! 

When it comes to my trifecta, Scholars refer to it as "Emotional Intelligence" , scientists refer to it as "projection",  other academics use words like "perceptive"....i...just call it "acceptance". 

"I accept that there are alot of me's running around in my head and based on the situation infront of me,

 the specialist "me", captains the ship."-------Kicki

Every study shows that the more you understand about yourself, the better you get at handling people and situations. Even organisations have started including emotional intelligence steps into decision making processes. That's how important it is in building a climate/ an environment conducive enough for growth and minimal conflicts.

              I don't think it wrong for me to admit to having different facets to myself. We all have to tap into different parts of ourselves to deal with situations. Sometimes you need your less grumpy side, other times you need your stern side but almost every time, you need you "have it all together" side, just to function. 

             When it comes to personal happiness, why shouldn't we be capable of choosing which "us" comes out to play?. When it comes to love, why can't we tap into the strength and the courage we know is there. When it comes to anger, why do we treat it as a tornado instead of a kid who needs a time-out? When it comes to forgiveness,  why don't we look for the kid within us who doesn't hold a grudge or remember a wrong? 

            But embracing all the you's that are in you, really is the first step to living life as YOU. You may think i'm a fruity loop for some of the things i do but to be honest, in a strange way..it is what keeps me grounded. You cant always take yourself seriously. Some of my actions are totally unjustifiable and down right ridiculous....but the fact that i can laugh about it, and you can laugh about it too...only means "We have a winner"........"ME"....in second place "Myself"...and third place "I".

 I am mature enough to know the difference between situations that require absolute seriousness, those that require both seriousness and relaxation, and others that require.....well....."letting the dogs run loose in the yard".  In life's individual coping race...i've got  "GOLD, SILVER and BRONZE"......How about you?

Life is so hard, people in life make things so hard, everyday could be potentially hard and for the better half of time, things seem so so hard. With such hardness floating around, i reckon as often as we can get it, we should have a breadth of fresh air. Who says I CANNOT BE MY OWN BREADTH OF FRESH AIR ?!

When "Me" fails, 

"Myself" takes over. 

!I" steps in as a back-up plan

.......And you guys know what "I" get up to..... wink* wink* :)